15 Warning Signs of Dating Violence

  • One partner gets serious about the relationship too quickly
  • Jealousy, possessiveness, checking up on partner or won’t accept breaking up.
  • Being bossy, giving orders, making all the decisions
  • Date is afraid of partner and fears his/her reactions
  • Partner verbally threatens date
  • History of violence, hot temper
  • Pressures you for sex and for doing things you are not comfortable with says: “If you loved me you would…”
  • Abuses drugs and alcohol and pressures date to do it too
  • History of or tendency to abuse animals
  • Expresses contempt for women in general and treats as sex objects
  • Says partner provoked or made him or her do it
  • History of bad relationships and blames others for problems
  • Statements or actions indicate he believes men should be in control and women should do as they are told
  • Has hit, pushed, shoved, strangled, or restrained or physically hurt you
  • Your family and friends have warned you about him/her and they are worried about your safety