Signs of a Healthy Partner 

  • Shares in the decision-making with you.
  • Knows oneself and is comfortable being alone.
  • Accepts you for who you are, not for how you look.
  • Have many of the same values as you do.
  • Is able to express anger without being violent or abusive.
  • Is able to work through conflict by talking.
  • Doesn’t expect you to be perfect.
  • Is a good listener and communicates well.
  • Takes responsibility for what he/she says and does.
  • Doesn’t rush into the relationship, moves step by step into being more intimate.
  • Accepts when you spend time away with your friends.
  • Ask permission before touching you or being sexual.
  • Has supportive friends other than you.
  • Makes and keeps commitments.